Thursday, May 22, 2014

The Hornet's Nest

It is really hard for me to watch war movies. It always has been. I think that my family surviving a catastrophic injury from war has made my skin just a little thicker because it only took me two tries to finish The Hornet's Nest.

War movies are just a little bit too much reality for me. Yes, my husband was Infantry. Yes, I have watched his video of his injury multiple times. Yes, I have watched a lot of videos that his guys made on their deployments. However I still haven't seen The Hurt Locker, Lone Survivor and a list of others. Chaz understands and never nags me to watch a movie, unless it is really good.

We have been tracking The Hornet's Nest for a while now. It's a small Army world and when the 101st is involved we hear all about it. When I got the email asking if we would like to be advanced screeners I knew I better say yes. However like always with war movies I let Chaz go first. I'll be honest, I just didn't know if I could watch it. I tried to watch it with him, but that night I just couldn't. It was just too hard for me to watch it that night. So I waited and he nagged me telling me I would really like it. "It's hard to watch, but you'll get through it," he said. That summed it up nicely.

Last night I popped my popcorn and loaded up the movie and dug in.

Mike and Carlos Boettcher are a father-son team of journalists. They deployed with our service members in 2011 to tell their story, not just use up some film for cool shots. No, this pair gets in there and bonds with our heroes like family. You can tell with this pair this is not just a job to them. I felt that they really wanted to tell the story that every American needs to see. I feel they did a superb job.

For the majority of the film the reporters are with the 2/327th No Slack. Guess who deployed to Kosovo with No Slack, you guessed it....Chaz did. I guess that brought this film a little bit closer to home with our No Slack connection. Enter the 187th and 506th and I realized we knew at least one soldier in all of those groups somehow, then film then hit even closer to home.

You know what made it all even harder....we were at Walter Reed when this all this was going down. I remember hearing about the 101st having a "fun time" in Kunar while Chaz was an inpatient. Then they all started joining us on Ward 57. I remember at one point the 101st pretty much took over the Ward. There were so many of us and they just kept coming in.

Back to the movie.....It is hard to watch the bullets fly and bombs explode. Every time I immediately thought of one of the service members I have helped through my job at YRF or met since Chaz was injured. Then comes an IED detonation. I knew when it went off it was 40-50 lbs of explosives. Then EOD confirmed my gut. How did I know? It looked just like Chaz's IED detonation and I'll never forget that image. All I could think was thank The Lord EOD got it instead of one of our guys. And at this point I wanted to vomit, our service members are still there fighting. This is still going on was all I could think to myself.

Then the next thought that entered my head, America is only seeing 1 1/2 hours of this. Our service members see it for days, weeks and months. And they are still there. Then Mike nailed it on the head when he said our guys are not there to fight a war, they are there to protect each other.

One of my favorite parts of the film was seeing some of our leaders in human form. We have a tendency to not realize that they may be high ranking, but I can assure you they really still care a lot. These men have directly impacted our lives and I just loved that Americans can get a small glimpse into them. General Petraeus came to pin medals on and you can see that meant so much to him. He visited us and you can tell that he cares so much about our families.General Townsend, I have never met, but I remember the phone call I received about him. He really liked Chaz a lot and when he found out he was injured he rushed to his side and was the one who presented him his Purple Heart at Bagram. CSM Schroeder has crossed our paths a few times. Chaz served under him at the 502nd and then when he served as the Division CSM. We have a great story on the CSM and how he stood up for Chaz when many others wouldn't. He and his wife care a lot about our families. General Campbell, oh dear where do I start and how would I stop. He and his wife Ann keep tabs on our family to this day. To say they truly care about our families is an understatement.

Then there's Roll Call. I have attended a Roll Call. Many civilians cannot handle a 21 gun salute. Let me tell you, Roll Call will make you a blubbering fool. I knew it was coming and started crying. Once I saw the soldiers standing at attention with tears streaming down the floods gates opened in my eyes. But then one of their leaders, who just is amazingly stoic and reminded me of Chaz waits for everyone to pass through then he breaks down. My brain flashed to my own hubby's break down and I went into the ugly-ain't-got-enough-tissues-in-the-world-cry.

I don't want to give too much away because I promise you, you want to see this movie. If I can spend day in and out with these heroes before and after the deployments, bury more than I can count now, and take care of literally thousands of wounded, ill and injured families and get through this film then you have no excuse to not watch it. It is your duty to watch it. 

You need to see what our heroes go through while on deployment. And most importantly remember, you are only watching for just over 90 minutes, this is our service members' life for months and in too many cases years!

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Erica Barber
Brandy Karpf


  1. I don't know how you made it through.
    Praying right now!
    Psalms 139:1-3 O LORD, thou hast searched me, and known me. Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar off. Thou compassest my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways.

  2. Continuing to lift up prayer!
    Psalms 139:4-6 For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O LORD, thou knowest it altogether. Thou hast beset me behind and before, and laid thine hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high, I cannot attain unto it.

  3. Lifting up prayers as always!
    Psalms 139:7-10 Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence? If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there. If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea; Even there shall thy hand lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me.